No Tears Left To Cry
In our country there are many cases of crimes that occur, physical and non-physical criminal crimes. non-physical crime can be in the form of character assassination or other . all types of crime are of course very detrimental to the victims.One of the psychological attacks on victims is bullying. bullying can really make the victims die in character and reduce the confidence of the victims. do the victims of bullying have a way out or is this the end of the story? . when you were bullied, there are many reactions that we or the victim can do. one possible reaction is that the victim may become more closed to the social environment.let's face the bullies together. How ? First, show your strengths. Second, make friends with people who support you. third, keep do and thinking positive.
First, show the excess you have. if you have advantages in certain fields, let's show it! so that the bullies not assume that you are a weak person. quoted from DokterSehat.com ,it is said that people who look weak will be more likely to be victims of bullies . ( Penyebab bullying lainnya adalah ketika seorang anak dianggap lebih lemah) This will increase your strength so it doesn't go down when you are disturbed.
The second way is, make friends with people who support you. According to Kompas.com ( ketika suatu saat anak menjadi korban bullying dan dijauhi sekelompok anak tertentu, dia cenderung tak memandangnya sebagai masalah dan bisa bergaul dengan teman-temannya yang lain.)
people who support you positively will always give you a positive impact too. they will continue to give you enthusiasm and strength when you feel down.
The third way is, still do positive things. this will encourage you not to think negatively and encourage you to ignore all the negative comments front people.what the positive thing that you can do ? For example you can develop a sense of empathy . According to Kompas.com You can think about difficult situations experienced by others. (Ayoe menyarankan orangtua untuk sering mengajak anak melihat orang-orang dengan kondisi kehidupan yang lebih sulit dan mengajak mereka untuk mau berbagi.)
Try to do things simple things above. One thing you should always remember is "haters gonna hate and lover always gonna love. don't mind negative words that will make you feel down. always remember things positive there is. And trust me, you really are very valuable !.